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FIFTY SHADES OF YOU

AS A BIG FAN OF THE FIFTY SHADES OF GREY TRILOGY, I COULDN'T FIND A BETTER TITLE WHENEVER IT COMES TO " you ".

WHY DO WE ALWAYS FEAR TALKING ABOUT OURSELVES ?

Well considering the fact that there're many reasons, over here I will mention only a few.

Let us start by people will label you as a  " show-off ". Getting labeled as a show-off is not something that we want, unless you have an "ego" problems. Quite possible it's due to the lack of individualism in our society. It doesn't only stands at the point, it's also because people do not intend to listen, respect, and understand the person they are talking to.

WHY DO THEY NOT LISTEN?

Somehow, as days are passing by, the listening to another person as they are talking is decreasing by the minute. One of the things also it's due to them, fearing that you are better than them, and vice versa.

SHOULD YOU BE TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF IN THE FIRST PLACE ?

​Of course you should !!

Why you shouldn't because the society said so ? *cocks head to the right*

Just be yourself, and talk about who you are. Things you like, and things you don't. Your hobbies, your prefences of your ideal crush/lover/boyfriend/husband/etc. Share your opinion, share with the world who you are. If someone disagreed with who you are (slap them mentally :P), tell them thank you, yet I'm not changing who I am for you. Unless you will for me, I might try for you.

IS THEIR  A CERTAIN WAY TO TALK ABOUT MYSELF ?

Yes there is.

• Say it like a story, nothing is more beautiful than story-telling.
• Be strong, at the same time be vulnerable, but don't be pitiful. There's always an in-between these, just have it steady.
• If you don't want to really be labelled as a " show off ", well don't be obsessed with yourself. Trust me, you don't want to be labelled as an egoist, or even a narcist ( narcissim ).
• Tell jokes about yourself, sense of humor always lightens the atmosphere

THESE ARE FEW KEYS

Lastly, I would love to mention if someone knows you before your new audience, and he/she said that you've changed. Tell them, that's fifty shades of me, for you. (TBC)